It's true: you just can't go home again. Sure, moving home or back to where you came from is always a legitimate option to choose, but you can't confuse a geographic return with an emotional return. If you are looking for a sense of security and familiarity, you can't recreate it: but you can create it. Time and patience are all it takes to build your own new hometown right where you are now. Instant relationships and instant families do not exist. Give this thing time.