Put one of your problems in the hands of someone else today, and your needs will be met by others. It's not about shirking responsibility, it's about delegating some of your work. You need to have more trust in the people you live and work with: when they say they are going to do something, they are going to do it! You'll get a valuable life lesson if you put your faith into someone who is more powerful than you or something that is bigger than you are.