For some darned reason, whenever there's a problem within your family, everyone comes to you to solve it. And you don't mind. Truth be told, you kind of like it, and you know you're good at it. But at this particular moment in time, you're not thrilled about the position you've been put in: and the responsibility you've been given shows no signs of letting up. Do what you can, then excuse yourself. Helping is one thing, but enabling is quite another.