To get some insight on your latest problem, find another person you can share your confusion with. A coworker could be the best choice, because they can be more objective than a loved one or close friend might be able to be. They can give you a different perspective you might not have considered, and while they might not say everything you want to hear, their words will help you make the best decisions. Know who to go to in certain situations. Friends are not always the answer.