If you feel unsure about what the next steps should be in a romantic or work relationship, look for signs that will indicate what the right path is today. They are there: you just need to see them. Doubting yourself is absolutely normal, and it has given you the healthy skepticism to recognize a solid thing when you see it. Just don't be too rough on people who are putting pressure on you. They care about you and want your success: they just haven't figured out how to show you.