If you're working on starting or strengthening a romance today, bear in mind that a whisper will help you get your message across a lot more effectively than a loud scream. Amplifying your voice will not amplify their affection for you: in fact, it could have the opposite effect. If you want to get intimate with someone, you have to get more intimate in your tone and demeanor. Turning down the noise will, in actuality, help you turn up their interest in you.