Not anyone or anything is as perfect as it seems at first glance today. There are interesting nuances that only someone with a skeptical eye can see. You notice some beautiful imperfections in someone new, and they comfort you and make you all the more intrigued. People are saying things they don't mean, so if you're getting the cold shoulder, stick around and wait things out. You may be greeted much more warmly under different circumstances, so try again another day.