Your words may inadvertently be very potent now: so much so that you might unintentionally hurt someone deeply without meaning to. If a loved one pushes your buttons, count to at least 500 in another room if possible before your answer them. Either that, or just say 'let me think about it. ' just don't let go with anything that's deliberately hurtful. There's no use burning a bridge simply because your mouth has temporarily turned into an atomic weapon.