Skip the small talk today: it's better suited for people who don't have anywhere near the charm, wit and curiosity that you have. As early on as possible, today, you need to get to sharing what's on your mind and finding out what other people have to say about their lives. The exchange of ideas is going to take little if any effort, so it can be an easy day full of smiles and interesting conversations. Why waste it being safe when you can be titillated?