Do you always have tiffs with someone you love over the same stupid things? Today is a really good day to take a harder look at some of these patterns. Chances are the pettier the ostensible reason for the fight, the more important it is to uncover the real reason behind what's happening. Are you playing out an old wound with this new person? Are you still not sure you can trust another human being with your feelings? Think about it anyway. Maybe there's a better way.