In this new push of yours to take more control over your future, don't forget that a big part of being industrious is calling upon other people to help you. While you certainly shouldn't depend on others to do things for you, there's nothing wrong with reaching out and using your connections. After all, if you don't use a connection, you lose it. Call in a few favors, and be sure to make it clear to these folks that you know how to show the proper amount of gratitude.