You're always the person everyone comes to when they need advice, sympathy, or a couple of dollars to pay the electric bill. Does that mean it's the only type of relationship you're capable of having? Hardly. So stop with the attitude. Besides, a long-distance lover could be making plans to tiptoe subtly back into your life even as we speak. If you're game, make the first move: the call and the invitation. Just be sure they pay for the ticket this time.