The fact is, people sometimes disagree and fight about issues: but that doesn't mean that they can't ever find common ground. And it definitely does not mean that they don't care about each other! So if you are feeling especially mismatched or out of sync with a close friend or romantic partner right now, don't worry. This is not the end: it's just a weird phase that will end when it needs to end. Maybe you two need some space apart for a while.