You're not one to give anything over without a knowing exactly what's in store. And that's why you shouldn't leave your health care to chance in case something happens to you. If you want to be an organ donor or not kept on life support, put your wishes on paper: that way your next of kin won't be faced with difficult decisions if the time ever comes. And make sure they know your intentions ahead of time. Otherwise, your fate could be left in the hands of someone you don't trust.