Not everyone is as on top of the details today as you are, so it's not wise to expect too much from other people. The sooner you realize that you need to go it alone, the better. They are just working at their own pace and abilities, and you can't rush them. Instead of getting frustrated waiting for them to catch up, just go off and take care of other things. Keep yourself busy. You'll feel fewer restrictions on your options, and they will feel less pressure from you.